Is there a term for feeling the loss of someone passing away or the grief we feel, even though you didn’t know them personally?

Someone who is a public figure known for his great deeds, compassionate heart and humble attitude towards life.

Someone you adored for being a visionary and kind at the same time.

Someone whose life is a testimony to the fact that human potential is limitless.

Someone who is an inspiration to millions.

I don’t know if there is a term for it, but I am feeling that today. I am feeling that since I heard the news of the passing away of Mr Ratan Tata last night.

I always wanted to meet him but never got the opportunity to meet. I wanted to meet him to just experience what kind of energy he had when he could be so many things at once and yet be kind. His kindness always touched me more because here was a busy man running an empire yet took the time to do what mattered most to him.

Few months ago, he had put up a post looking for a blood donor for a dog who was admitted to their hospital. I was touched. And there were many such occasions when what he said or what he did touched my heart.

I always wondered – what does it take to be a great human being like him, someone whose life is filled with brilliance, kindness and love? I don’t have the answer. I am just one of those people who have known him from far, but that has also created a great impact. It’s beyond my imagination what people close to him are going through. It is an irreplaceable loss to them and to the rest of the world.

So many times, I get lost in the pettiness of everyday living. But when something like this happens, I pause and reflect on what I want my life to mean. It’s a hard question to answer. But for now, I am keeping it at the back of my mind. I will carry the question with me for a while and see what kind of answers come up.

To understand my feelings, I asked ChatGPT if there is a term for feeling the loss of someone passing away even though you didn’t know them personally?

Apparently, there is – it is called parasocial grief. Here’s what it told me.

The term “parasocial grief” is often used to describe the feeling of loss or sadness over the death of someone you didn’t know personally, such as a celebrity, public figure, or someone whose work or life impacted you emotionally. The feeling is valid, as the bond, though one-sided, can still deeply affect people emotionally.

Yeah, I feel the sadness for a great human being leaving this world, there are very few like him. Yes, I feel the sadness like someone in my circle has passed away. Yes, I feel the sadness because he has been inspiring in so many ways and I am sure he will continue to be so because legends like him live through their deeds and words.

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